Mahatrias daily Messages : Feedback is on the action and not you

Feedback is on the action 

Only the person who cares for you, who loves you will ever try to come and tell you “Here you are wrong, why you don’t correct yourself?”

If you were rejected in an interview, which means they dint think you could fit in that post. It does not mean you were rejected. They rejected the candidate and not you.

When anyone in the world is correcting you, they are correcting and action of yours and not you. It brings great freedom.  Don’t take everything personal. The moment you understand that the feedback is on the action, not on you, you will find of peace and harmony.

Learning’s from Mahatria's infinipath July 20, 2014

 Imperfection

All of us are imperfect. Even God is. God is evolving too! For every imperfection of you, someone is making up for it!  For every moment of your anger, the world has to work little extra to restore good vibrations and peace. Every imperfection of yours enormously increases the load on the world!

I’m blessed with a divine choice if I have to do more:

 It is a divine choice. Krishna told, “If negative reaches a critical point wherein positives can’t prevail, I will reincarnate myself to reestablish the positive and allow positive to dominate the negative“. If you are the one who does more, understand that life chose you to be the contributor! If you have to make up with your spouse, if you have to express, if you have to say sorry, understand that life has chosen you to do more

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Anger:

Anger means I’m helpless and incapacitated. I expect something to be done and it is not being done in the way I expected it to be done. Anger is a helpless outburst of me feeling incapacitated. Anger is a message to you before it is a message to the world.

I don’t know how, but I know I will:

You surprise yourself by surpassing yourself. Life is a never ending journey.  If you no more surpass yourself, you have stopped growing.

Invest time in finding solutions than discussing about the problem, cribbing about the problem. The world likes to exaggerate their problems. 

Learning’s from Mahatria's infinipath July 13, 2014

Tune yourself into silence:

Tune yourself into silence and wait consciously for those revelations. The more and more silent you are the best ideas you will get. The more relaxed you are, more revelations you will get.

Branding:

A brand can’t hold two positions in the mind of a prospect. You can’t be an economical brand as well as premium brand.  

Exposure:

In any homogeneous environment, human beings get constrained. Unless we get exposed to an environment where we can see people achieve, we can’t. Either you have to mingle with someone outside your environment or someone has to come to your environment and make you realize that you are sitting on a gold mine. You need a coach to tell your that you can perform more than what you can perform.

A man is poor because in this mind he is poor. The one who is rich is rich because he is rich in his outlook toward life and vice versa.  If your mind is programmed for a secured Government Job, you will remain in Government Job. The extent to which you want security, the extent you diminish opportunity. Security and opportunities are inversely proportional. The more you want security, the more you have shrunk the opportunities in life. There is no “Secured opportunity”.

Leadership:

To be a bridge between the higher and lower is the spirit of leadership. Lift the lower toward higher realizations.  Take the revelations and go down to the world and share then in a way they will understand. Never go down and stay down. Bring them up in life.

In anything you represent

1. Bring dignity to what you represent
2. Bring continuity to what you represent
3. Make yourself redundant of the chair  you represent

Learning’s from Mahatria's infinipath July 6, 2014

How you see it does not make any difference to it, but it makes all difference to you!

How you see a place, say a temple makes a difference to you. Some many see it as a stone, some as a sculpture, and some as divine! How you see it does not matter to it, it makes a difference to you!  You can apply it in all aspects of life.

Mondays should be your holy days:

If you see work as a place where you can earn money that is all it will remain. If you consider work as worship, then it will become an alternate temple to you! How you go to the office matters a lot. Unpolished shoes, uncombed hair, unshaven beard ...will you go for a date like this? How you see a place of work does not make a difference to the place of work, it makes all difference to you. So, Mondays should be your holy days.

You should look forward to Mondays. We should stop celebrating Fridays. If you have to build a new world of abundance, look forward to Mondays… TGIM: Thank God it is Monday. Whether you see a Monday as curse or blessing does not make any difference to Monday but to u.

If I need holistic abundance in life, I need materialistic abundance in life, work has to be a sacred part if my life. If work has to sacred part if my life, then Mondays are my sacred days. TGIM: You look forward to work; you look forward to Mondays that is how you magnetize abundance in life. So, your place of work is as sacred as a place of worship. You will be d greatest beneficiary in the entire process.

Don’t return from holiday and say “O God I have to go back to work”. Happily say “I have to go back again so that I can go on a holiday next year. This holiday was possible because of the work”

How you see your spouse:

• If you see your wife as somebody who has to take care of aged parents, then you have a licensed nurse in your life
• If you see your wife as somebody who has to sacrifice everything for the upbringing of your children, then you have a licensed baby sitter
• If all that matters to you is the way she cooks, if is all the is important to you is that she always services the needs of your tongue, then you have a licensed cook.
• If you have lot of tension in life, when I come home I might bark, I might scream, I might come home drunk, I might smoke, I will do whatever I want, then you have licensed psychologist in your home

“Somehow I feel more complete in your presence than even when I’m with myself, nothing completes me like you complete me”. If that is how you see your spouse, you don’t have a licensed relationship, you will have a friend for lifetime, and you have a soul mate in life. How you see your spouse makes all the difference to you.  How you see your spouse makes small difference to him/her makes all the difference to you. You can apply this everywhere.

How you see your dads photo:

The photo is just there on the wall, but I believe my dad is still with me always even though he is not embodied anymore then Your father is an Eternal God to u.

Your sons photograph:

Looking at a photograph of your child, if someone says “It is just digital impression created in Kodak paper”, you will surely be pissed off.  It is how you see things that matters.

If a photograph is your son, if a piece of cloth represents your country, if you see a shoe sign you say it is Nike,  If yellow is Chennai super kings, Red and blue is Delhi Dare devils, If purple is Kolkata is knight riders, Then granite is God. How you see a thing makes no difference to the thing but it makes all the diff to u.

How you see your Body:

This body, if you see this as yours you will abuse it. Because it was given for free we don’t value it. If human body is seen as God’s gift to man you won’t abuse it anymore. After that nobody has to motivate you to take care of your health. You will not feed it with junk anymore. Abusing the gift is abusing the giver. Cherishing the gift is cherishing the giver.

• If knowledge is given as a gift from the teacher, you will not abuse that knowledge. You will not become arrogant or egoistic!
• If you look down on India after going to foreign nations, then understand that it is India who made you good enough to make you fit for a foreign nation.

Cod liver oil and puppy:

Doc advised dog owners that cod liver oil is good for puppy. The moment the bottle is taken puppy will go inside the cot. You used to drag the puppy from the cot, hold it b/w your legs, open the jaws and put that cod liver oil here. One day while administering, the bottle spilled and cod liver oil spilled all over the floor. When you took the mop to clean, you say the puppy licking the spilled cod liver oil. So, the puppy was not against cod liver oil, it was against the way it was administered.

Pain and Pleasure:

 Studies are not d problem. The way we teach is d problem. You give 96 square box to a child and ask it to draw 96 standing lines. Child is very creative. It draws one slanting line from top to bottom. Mother of the child whips him and asks him to write properly. Suddenly the child says “Ma, do you know what happened in Chota beam?”. You beat him for thinking about Chota Beam. Child hears the car sound and says “Dad has come”. You scold him again. The child feels that during study hour mom becomes devil. Before and after study hour she becomes angel. Because child has associated studying to pain and playing to pleasure, it prefers playing.

Your life should be governed by right and wrong, not pain and pleasure:

You decide to exercise the next day. You feel that exercise is pain and sleeping is pleasure and you sleep. You embrace pleasure and avoid pain.  If something is painful and your consciousness says that it is right thing and you do it. If something is pleasure and your consciousness says that it is wrong and you have to stop doing it to become a better person.  Animalistic intelligence chooses pleasure and pain whereas human intelligence chooses right and wrong.

When any one tries to correct you:

When any one tries to correct you, understand that they don’t want to find faults with u. They try to make you better. It is you who benefits in the entire process. The world is trying to give you feedback and it is trying to make you even better.

Quotes:

Thiruvalluvar said, “Ingratitude should never be an aspect of you”. Don’t analyze it. Just follow it.

Einstein said, “Live your life as if nothing is a miracle. Life your life as if everything is a miracle”

Gandhi said, “eventually nothing success as truth

Have abundant dreams:

George Bernard Shaw, one of the greatest orators the world has ever seen said, “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.” you stagnate because you see things that are and ask why... Progress in life is looking at what is not and asking why not. Because he said why not

Since some people asked why not, it resulted in lot of inventions. So, he says have unreasonable dreams, big dreams. Have abundant dreams.

·       Christ started at 30!

·         KFC began at 65!

·         Abraham Lincoln became president at 52!

It is never too late to begin in life. Don’t think ordinary dreams. Ask why not at look at possibilities in life. Life is slipping. There is no time.

Sometimes God upsets my plans to execute his plans:

If Jayalalitha was not humiliated in parliament, she would not have got the urge to become PM.

If Steve Jobs was not thrown out of his own organization, he would not have built Apple.

If Mahatma Gandhi was not thrown out of the train, he would not have thought of Indian Freedom.

 What teaching of infinitheism can I apply now?

Work like you have never worked. See work like you have never seen. You are going to move towards materialistic abundance and eventually achieve holistic abundance. In situations which I’m not able to handle, or if you find it too demanding, ask yourself “What teaching of infinitheism can I apply now?”

Learning’s from Mahatria's infinipath June 29 , 2014

Discipline:

When you were child dint know what was right way or better way to live life. Your mom knew it is important for you to brush your teeth every day. For you, brushing was not your interest. She thrust it upon u, forced it upon you. You were chased. You were bribed. You cried. 

By repeatedly doing it over a period of time you learnt to brush and it became your life style. Giving you a bath was thrust upon you. Over a period of time you could learn that and bathing was your lifestyle

You were sent to school. You cried, refused, you revolted. No matter how much you cried, you were dragged to school. You had to be disciplined. A discipline was cultivated in you and eventually it became a lifestyle.  If all of us were left unto ourselves as children our life would not have been any different from an animal.

You did not like it when your Grandma told you to keep the things from where it was picked.  You did it for pleasing her but it became your lifestyle. If someone has not disciplined u, you keep things where even you can’t find. So disorganized you are that One day you will search “Where am I”? Only when you shift the house 14 years later, you will get the thing you lost.

Exposure:

Unless we are exposed that there is a better way to live life, we never scale up. Only we are exposed to the outside world, we get to know the opportunities that lie ahead.  The size of a person’s dream is shaped by size of the environment he is exposed to.

You can’t learn a language unless there is an environment in which you can use the language.  How you speak your language depends on environment in which you are exposed.  Go to New York, you will find yourself walking fast.etc …

Wishing someone for their birthday:

If someone celebrates birthday, then wish them happy birthday along with a quality you admire of him or her. Or recall a special incident with him or her.

If someone commits a crime in a village in Africa, the person is made to sit in the chair. All people come and tell the qualities they admire about him. Eventually, he will start crying and think “why did I commit such a mistake. Why did I stoop down?”  So, keep reinforcing the positives which a person has.

Emotions: 

To emote is human and not to emote is animal. Don’t be ashamed of your emotions.  Keep the child within you awake.

Stay awake and learn from everything:

Anything can teach you. A blade of grass dancing in wind can teach you something if you are ready to learn from it.

Awaken the giant within you:

If “no” is not an option for you, then you won’t search for alternatives. If no is an option for u, you will settle down with a no.  When failure is not an option, you will think of success ONLY. Don’t wander around life being satisfied that you are one step above animal. Just because you hail from great family, getting promotion etc, don’t be satisfied. Being son of a great person is fine. What are you going to do with your potential?   “I work for a great Brand”. What are you going to do so that the company is going to be proud of you? A giant is sleeping within u. awaken it.

Impracticability is the vocabulary of a mediocre who does not want to take the responsibility of implementation. Don’t settle for anything ordinary.

We are powerful magnets. Decide what you want. Soon you can achieve that. All 7.2 bill people in world want to have a better life. But few take the responsibility.

Buddha says:

Buddham saranam gacchami: Continue to stay in touch with course of action.

Dhammam saranam gacchami:  Continue to stay in touch with values, teachings

Sangham saranam gacchami:  Continue to stay in touch with like minded people

Buddha says:  don’t assume you will be like this till the end. You are consistently programmed by environment in which you live. You are not a machine. If once programmed it stays eternally programmed. The lava after leaving volcano can’t retain its heat for too long. Further and further it moves away from volcano, the sooner and sooner it will lose its heat. One rotten tomato will spoil all the good tomatoes.

Going to office:

I might go to a place of worship without taking bath but I will not go to my office without taking bath. When we go to work, we realize that it is okay to go to work without being dressed properly. It is your way of showing what the place of work means to u.

Man gets manipulated easily:

30 min before Kaikeyi was sure that she loves Rama more than anyone. She loved Rama more than her own son Bharatha. She listened to Mandhirai for 30 minutes and she began to see Rama as a rival and threat. Only 30 min was required to contaminate d mind of Kaikeyi

Duryodhana and Arjuna dint know what to do .Duryodhana’s fall back was Saguni. He was bad and became ugly. Arjuna’s fall back was Krishna. He was good and became best.

“I think my manager is not good”. You will share this with a friend and come back loving your manager or hating him even more. “I think my brother is not right”. You will share this with someone n you will go back n tell your bro that you love him or you end relationship with him. Who your fallback is matters a lot.

Talk to a group of people and you will be convinced that best time is ahead of us.  Talk to a group of people and you will feel demoralized.  So important is the environment, i.e. the people who you r relating with. It takes nothing to pull someone down. It takes a lot to bring someone up!

Keep watching people around u. Are they uplifting your thinking or contaminating your thinking? Are you becoming futuristic in my thoughts? Do you believe in infinite possibly?

How do we celebrate ourselves?

Loving ourselves is seen as arrogance, ego etc. none of us realize that if you don’t love yourself, you can’t enjoy others loving u. “Love thy neighbor as you love yourself”

How to be happy?

Everything has to be right to b happy. To make some1 happy do something they like. . It is very easy to make others happy. Any person you cross, ask yourself what is d one thing I do thy will become happy. Feel the happiness you feel making others happy. You should be source of happiness for everyone around.

 Rather than thinking “what I want to cook for myself” if you think “what I want to cook for your loved ones”, you become Mother Theresa. The reason is enough to celebrate life.

If you become blotting paper without reacting to the emotions which people display, you become Buddha.

Happiness in small things and Success in big things

We set very high standards for our happiness and we set very low standards for our success.

Ordinary accomplishments makes us feel successful n we are expecting big time perfections for us to be happy in life. Let simple things make you happy in life n don’t get satisfied with ordinary success.

You have very high bar for happiness and very low bar for success. Reverse it. Don’t be satisfied with ordinary accomplishments. But everything should make you happy.