Learning’s from Mahatria's infinipath June 22, 2014

Mind > Thoughts > Words >Vocabulary

The mind of the man is the man.  If you have to change the man you have to change the Mind.

But Thoughts constitute mind. So, if you have to change the mind you have to change the Thoughts.

But Words constitute thoughts.  So if you have to change the Thoughts you have to change the Words.

If you have to change quality of your thoughts you have to change the quality of your words. Without changing quality of your words, you can’t change the quality of the human being you are!  When the quality of your thoughts changes, the quality of your mind changes .When the quality of your mind changes the quality of who you are changes!

We are conditioned by the environment:

We can't stop number of thoughts entering us on a daily basis! After talking to someone for 10 min have you felt that the world is doomed? After talking to someone for 10 min, have you felt very inspired and energetic? We can’t stop these thoughts which from all directions. Man is susceptible to conditioning whether he needs it or not! We all get conditioned by the environment we surround ourselves with. We are conditioned by our dominant circle. The words u use and thoughts u use are so dependent on the environment which you surround yourself with. If everyone speaks depressing language, soon you will also speak depressing language. If everyone believes in I can, soon you will believe that you can.

Don’t take your environment lightly. It plays a dominant role in your life. You are easily influenced by the environment. You will become like the environment. The thoughts you use, words you use everything depends on the environment.

99 percent of world are programmed by environment, the rest program the environment.

Build a resourceful vocabulary:

If you can’t correct you at thought level, at least correct yourself at vocabulary level. It all starts with u. Every opportunity you get, learn to say the right thought. Express it. Fill your vocabulary with love, bliss, top of the world, great, I can and yes. Learn to say yes to life.

When you chant something say "Love you so much" for 108 times, 108 memory cells are filed with those chants! Chant daily. It creates more memory cells! Eventually "Love you so much" becomes your most dominant thought.  In the beginning you will only say “Love you so much”. Eventually you will feel the love.  Even when you see a cockroach, it will be difficult to hate. So, say positive words always. You will fill your memory cells with positive words.   Say I love you often. It benefits you more than others.

So, if someone asks “How are you?” reply in a positive tone. Eventually you will become positive. If you scold someone with the filthiest vocabulary, you hear it and your mind hears it more than the other person.  It creates filthy thoughts in you and eventually your mind becomes filthy.  Because the distance b/w your mouth and your ears is shorter than your mouth and others ears.

Program yourself with "Aradhe Naavil Sutta Vadu”. A time will come when u will become master of your tongue!

Say “Things are not improving”, your things will not improve. Say “Things are improving”, your things will improve.  To experience quality of life, nothing has to change; only you have to change.

If opportunities are slipping from you, somewhere you are not thinking right. If your thoughts are not right, your vocabulary is not right.  Change what you say!

Vocabulary > Words > Thoughts > Mind > You

Quality of your vocabulary becomes Quality of Words.

Quality of Words becomes Quality of thoughts.

Quality of thoughts becomes Quality of mind.

Quality of mind becomes Quality of who you are.

Quality of who you are becomes your life.

So, to change quality of your life, you have to change your vocabulary.

So, Find something to appreciate.  Say some beautiful things to yourself. Speak about the right thing. Use right words. Search for right words and things.

Doctors say, “Medicine works on you proportionate to quality of thoughts”. If you give up, no one can help.  So, if there are patients in your home, you have to help the patients to create positive thoughts in them.

Excusaitis:

The greatest disease u can suffer from is a psychological disease. Dr. David Schwartz who authored the book “Magic of thinking big” made a research and found a disease “excusaitis”.  He mentioned that man does not want to be responsible for his failure. To bail himself he is very innovative in coming up with excuses.

You say that the environment is very competitive. There are people who succeeded in competitive environment. They have found a way to succeed by taking responsibility. You haven’t succeeded by giving excuses.

“At my age, can I do it”?

I don’t have intelligence

I don’t have qualification

For every excuse you can give, people have succeeded. People, who search for excuses, find excuses. People, who search for responsibilities, find responsibilities and they keep moving ahead

Dr. David Schwartz also said, if there is one contribution in parenting that u can do to your child, next time your child falls down, in order to console and pacify the child, do not say “Slap the floor”. You have incorporated a seed for a disease in your child “I can blame the floor for my fall”. For the rest of the life, the child will blame the teacher for failing, school for not scoring, political system for not progressing, hereditary for diseases, and anything.  If there are no reasons he/she will say “God is cruel” or “My Karma is not good”.  If you say that he fell because he fell down because he dint walk properly, the child will learn to be responsible for his fall.

Parents have to program the children to believe that their children can. This can be their greatest contribution. Constantly tell them they will make it big in life!

Cribbing, criticizing and complaining:

One such psychological disease like Excusaitis is “Cribbing, criticizing and complain”. It is a habit. You can find something or the other to crib or complain or criticize. If you make it a habit, you will always find something to crib or complain or criticize. Over a period of time the entire world looks wrong to you. When the entire world looks wrong to you, the damage is not to the world but to you. When whole world looks like garbage to you, you become a garbage bin. The damage you bring to you is eternally high. It creates complaining thoughts in your head, cribbing thoughts in your head … Because this has become a dominant thought, your happiness, peace of mind goes away. Your ruin yourself in this entire process. Disease takes away the ease with which you can live your life.

If you chose to appreciate, then you can appreciate anything. If you chose to Criticize, then you can criticize anything. Your mind is capable of doing both.

Do you live up to HIS expectation?

It is not the way life is. It is the way the thoughts reflect in your life. You mirror your life on the way you think.  Don’t expect ordinary results from you. You are not an ordinary person.  Each one of you has been created with a special capability. Before expecting that God has to live up to your expectation, ask yourself “am I living up to Gods Expectation?”

If God can take a form and come to the earth and sit with anyone of you one to one, God with lot of pain in his eyes will say “I have not used a mould to create u. I have hand crafted you specially. I don’t want u to be like anybody else. I want you be the only one of your kid. I gave a special ability to everyone I created”

There is greatness sleeping within all of us. Each one of us has been bestowed with unique, special ability. We should Demand more from ourselves.